One week later I was back in ‘Sir’s study and this time I was punished for:

  • Two late nights chatting in the site ‘Informed Consent’ – I was given a slippering for this over the punishment bench.
  • For my “attitude” when I was “once again being thoughtless” when talking to him in chat – I received an over the knee spanking for this.
  • I was sulking, being rude, snappy and sullen to everyone for over a week in online chat and at home and in public.¬† – I was given an over the knee spanking and then slippered. I was also grounded and banned from using the Informed Consent website for at least a week.

I was not a happy girl around this time and found it hard to come to terms with my label as his submissive as he had other relationships that I thought made my less important. It was new to me to be in this situation and I did not cope well so I decided to leave on friendly terms. We stayed in touch and remained friends but I did not think it was committed or serious enough for me to relax enough and be honest about my behaviour, so I withdraw and sulked a lit. The spanking I had for thsi was not enough to change my mind because I felt sad and that this would be my last punishment. It was all too soon for me to be in this relationship with him. I am immature and pretty naive when it comes to discipline relationships as I only ever had one serious long term mentor before, so once again I decided to run away.

I had started having regular visits to ‘Sir’ at the time and he was getting to understand me. This was my third punishment and was for:

  • Throwing a tantrum in online chat. I was sarcastic and suggested our spanking relationship wasn’t serious and was a game, because ‘Sir’ was also in another punishment relationship with someone else and it felt wrong for me to be in this too. I was cheeky and kept answering back and when he told me to “Stop it Now” I disobeyed and carried on talking and acting like a spoilt madam he said.  – I had a very intense over the knee spanking, followed by a slippering, the wooden and leather paddles and a hairbrush, plus 12 strokes of the Cane
  • I was also 4 minutes late to bed – I had a 4 minute over the knee spanking for this too.